I understand what you're saying. But that's going to weed out a lot of people, right?
This is a more than fair question.
My viewpoint is that there is a length of distance on the political spectrum where there are massive diminishing returns in attempting to appeal to the other side of the aisle.
I'm a big believer ( and most of my participation in the PSF is more geared this way) in appealing to moderates, undecideds and independents. And, if I'm being fair, with major cross sections of the Democratic Party shifting further and further left, some moderate Democrats actually operate as "Republican-Lite" in nature.
If you can win over moderates, undecideds and independents, then you can win elections, and if you can win enough elections, then you can actually shape functional public policy. I'm actually not a huge fan of many things that the GOP has done and has become. But they don't subscribe to identity politics and intersectionality and those are the two issues where it becomes the hill that I'm willing to die on. Feelings over pragmatism in public policy is a death sentence for our children.
If someone is constantly and naturally inconsistent in their value system, I just don't think it's worth the time to try to have them see your side of things or try to see their side of things. It's like negotiating with an emotional terrorist. But then again, I think outside of politics, those kind of folks would be better off excised from one's life. And if I'm being fair, the Texas GOPers who want to loophole Roe Vs Wade to stop abortions but also are ardent against vaccine mandates would also be included in my list.
Just a big believer that the best path for Conservatives is to be consistent and create more high information voters. Even at the risk that those people end up voting against the Conservative viewpoint. Put up the information and let people decide for themselves. If people see your life and your behavior as an example, then they will be more willing to explore what you do, what you think, what you believe and mostly what you value, and consider opening themselves up to your viewpoints because they want that same success for themselves.
I cannot change a zealot. Also the world I want to live in is one where people can and do disagree with me. But I can use that time and energy better to operate as an example and I can advocate for my fellow Conservatives to operate as better examples. If that happens on a wide scale, that's more than a win, that's outright victory.