Finally found a moment to sit on the deck, stare at the atlantic and catch up….been a hectic 2 weeks or so. over this period, we shut down and sold our house, moved to the beach temporarily and loaded a container. first off, my company said once i leave the country they really can’t figure out a way to make things work, so i gave notice that 6/21 is my last day. no regerts (sic). my BIL came down 5/31 and rented a u-haul to take our leftover items. he hired moving help for 4 hours, we don’t load anymore at our age lol. 6/1 was supposed to be my movers and then his guys but, saturday night my movers called that their truck was down and they were trying to get a uhaul, but could they come sunday…..we relented. so, saturday went smoothly. we even went out to a nice meal. since we moved all the beds out we stayed at a springhill that evening. sunday comes around and my BIL hits the road at 9a then my guys show up and i immediately get the “you have toooo much stuff for our truck and a 20 foot container”. problem is, they did the estimate based on a video tour, more in this later. they start boxing and wrapping everything. a bit haphazard, but this is what they do. truck starts filling up too fast. it’s a 20 ft u-haul which holds less than 1,000 cubic. they have a van that can hold another 500-800 or so, but we need to start making decisions on items that won’t make it….of course on a sunday no one is around but we try to call our sales mgr, who is none too happy we call on a sunday and he is already on the phone with the move foreman. i basically tell them i will go up to a 40 ft container, no problem, but how did we get here? sales guy tells me and my wife we put HIM in a bad spot because we provided the estimates and weight…..huh? so, a decent amount of items didn’t make it. exercise equipment, power equipment, small storage items and chatchkas. IVL never had the decency to even call me, they just sent me a bill for going from a 20 to a 40. issue i have is that i paid for a 40 now and the truck didn’t have space for a 40 and items got left behind. not sure how IVL doesn’t have a contingency for this. but, moving forward…..i got a neighbor of mine to take many leftover power items and 800-got-junk for the remainder. we hoteled sunday and finished up the house monday. left some wine and a nice congrats card for the new owners. i think this is a nice thing to do. oh, did i mention that we had our own u-haul 10 footer for items that we were moving to the beach and not italy? that was loaded up by my BILs guys. drove that to the beach monday evening and my wife followed in the SUV, which had a bunch of bins. man, you don’t realize how much stuff you have and guys, check the amount of bags and shoes your wives have, you’ll thank me at some point. tuesday morning i had more moving help come to the beach to unload the u-haul. they were awesome. returned the u-haul and got blitzed at a mexican place on chips, ceviche and margaritas. since then, this week, we’ve been unpacking, consolidating and getting used to a 1 bdrm condo. we eat on the deck overlooking the atlantic each night. so much garbage and so many boxes to dump. we are cleaning the condo as if we won’t be here for 1 year….maybe wife’s family will come by for a trip, but need to make sure everything in the cupboards are dated to last. tuesday afternoon we are heading back to our old neighborhood, as i have an ortho appointment at 4p. hotel overnight and wednesday i see my doctor for the last time and she sees the endocrine doctor. we will likely make a quick public storage unit run, as we have many empty plastic bins to store and not enough space at the beach. head back to the beach wednesday…..saturday the 15th we need to complete the shutdown and sunday we head back to our old area for 3 nights. leaving on a sunday as my wife has to work and losing monday traveling and settling will disrupt her schedule. wednesday 6/19 we fly to ny for a 5 night layover. wife can visit family, cemetery, hair cut, maybe i hit the cemetery in fort lee. 6/24 we fly out and arrive rome 6/25 to begin! positive note, cigna global close care plan rep from UK was awesome to deal with! we purchased private insurance for now thought italy has national care, until we settle and figure stuff out. our policy is basically hospitalization with a 3k deductible, then 20% copay with a 2k OOP max. outpatient is a 1k deductible with a 20% copay and 3k OOP max. i set these limits knowing that she has an HSA that can hold a bit over 3k, which is going to be our copays. we also took dental and it offers some included items like x-rays, cleanings. just about $500/mo combined and i pay quarterly for a 3% discount. crazy crazy days. but almost have a foot in italy. our gambian came back to find our lawn overgrown and he’s been working hard to mow and landscape. i won’t need him much since i am quite good at lawn care and won’t have a job. i do plan to have him swing by every so often for yard cleanings, leaves, etc. might be easier to answer questions if anyone has them rather than blather on. also, we have family visiting us in italy 7/15. yikes!