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Is there any path back for us?. She said she needed to figure out what she wanted and couldn't be in a relationship. That is probably the end for me. I g get it. I just have so many regrets. I want to try if there is a way

I love her. I messed up, she is not moving on , I don't think, but needs to figure things out. Is there anyway to make things right? Small steps. I love her. I realize it's likely over, and she reached out because she does care for me. Im a mess

I don't want to end things with her. I know it is probably over. I get that, but I am in a depression. Is there any response I can give that is not desperate, shows I care, I want her back and that i am willing to do whatever that takes?

Message from her today: Hey, I am thinking of you and hope you're doing ok... And taking care of yourself too. I haven't been taking care of myself. I have lost 10 lbs, I am depressed and I love her. I really don't think she is opening any doors to a relationship, but how would I go about...

My heart isn't really into it, but I was on eHarmony today. I received an interest, and we talked on the phone tonight for 2 hours. I don't know if I sounded distracted, down or anything like that, but she seemed normal, fun and interested in meeting...we are planning to meet up on Saturday...

I honestly don't know/how to meet someone next. I met her on accident. I'm alone right now. I am a wreck but do want to get back out there. In all seriousness, how do I meet someone that I want to actually date?

We are broken up. She needs to improve herself, focus on her. I asked her what she was doing this weekend....Camping with friends. I don't know who she'd be talking about so I asked who was that...refused to answer. Probably seeing someone even though she flat out said she is not interested in...

Obviously, she expects the call to last under 1 hour. That's probably because we're done and she's going to state that so she probably doesn't need more than a few minutes to explain her decision.

Update: I did ask her earlier, on chat, how her work project went and she said the draft was done, but still working on it. I then asked if she was good with 7pm tonight to talk. She said 'yep' She just asked a moment ago if I can 6 pm now (vs. 7 Pm) so she can attend an excercise class at 7pm...

I'm doing it again..... Hi, I did get the flowers that was a nice gesture. Let's talk tomorrow after work. At least in this moment, I think she wants to actually talk. I've been thinking the opposite all day. Hope my at least short-term optimism is right.

I am 44, she is 32. She is extremely mature. I have never met somebody who is more intellectual/smart.

I don't think she's the type who would lie. I think it's at least good we're keeping some level of communication open.

OK, she did provide an update: Her: "It looks like I'm going to need to work late on a deliverable for my boss." Me: Hi there, Im good at any time. Is later ok? Her: Let's do tomorrow. I have no idea how long I'll be working on it. Me: Ok that is fine. I hope you do't work too late...thinking...

I will call her tonight if she doesn't call me. I'm not sure if there's something up with Google Chat, but it's odd that she hasn't read the messsage. I don't want that to be the reason we don't talk.

Thank you! If the call is pretty to the point, it will probably be over in like 5 minutes. There's not much for me to add if she clearly ends things. I'm not even sure how to end a call like that, but I think I may find out. If she does end things, I have to be able to find peace.

I think she probably did appreicate them, I don't that that it's enough though to change anything. A gesture sounds more complementary, but it could be a small reminder that I'm trying. Ultimately, it's just a word though.

My sense, as of now, and probably throughout the day as that this relationship will officially end tonight. Assuming we do talk this evening, it's highly likely that it's not as much of a conversation as much of an ending. I can see her being reflective of what has lead us to this point, her...

This may not be a significant, but it could be a leading indicator. I have not seen a response asking if 7PM would work this evening? In Google Chat, you can also see the last message that the peson read, and it doesn't appear to have been read. Obviously, I am thinking through everything in...

This is sort of where I'm at. The call may be quick - her ending things or telling me too little too late, and I need to work on myself to be able to have a healthy relationship. I can totally see this happening today. If she wants or is willing to continue to talk throug things, I am going...

thank you . Again hoping we are able to have a discussion and she's not just ending things. I feel she relates to ownership and caring about the state of ourselves and the relationship so I think me saying things clearly can help. I don't want to come across as begging and desparate though to...